The Day God Showed Me My Future
“At a stop sign on an ordinary Tuesday morning, God literally showed me my future in visions. What I saw changed everything - because I realized I’d been trying to squeeze myself into boxes that were never meant for me.”
Sometimes God has to meet you exactly where you are to show you where you’re going. LO Sister Conference 2023 - where God’s vision became God’s promise. The weekend that changed everything.
You weren’t created to wear someone else’s expectations.
For months, I felt this pull. This nudge to do more with my life.
I’d healed from my rock bottom moment, stopped drinking, found my footing… but there was this intense desire burning inside me to help other women. To use everything I’d learned to empower women to take back their lives.
I tried everything. Fitness coaching. Influencing. Even researched opening a gym and created business names. But nothing felt right. The voice in my head wouldn’t go away, and honestly? It was driving me into a slight depression. I was so frustrated I even posted a tearful video on TikTok talking about it. (It’s still there if you want to look it up!)
July 2023 hit me hard. I was lost, unmotivated, and desperate for answers.
That’s when my friend Jenna told me what she always told me: “Pam, pray about it.”
So I did. And let me tell you - I prayed SPECIFICALLY.
“God, you’ve been nudging me for months and I’m still lost. Please show me the way. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO BE DOING???”
Y’all… He literally SHOWED me.
I was driving home from dropping my kids at school, listening to worship music (preparing for a women’s conference Jenna had “tricked” me into attending). Coming up to the stop sign I turn at to get to my house, and suddenly…
It was like I was transported out of my body. Scary because yes, I was still driving.
I saw myself standing on a stage, speaking.
Flash.
Thousands of women in the audience.
Flash.
A women’s health and fitness magazine cover.
Flash.
A group of women lined up with me standing like Superwoman.
Flash.
I was back in my body.
I called Jenna, crying. She was frantic asking what was wrong, and all I could get out was: “I know what it is. I know what I’m supposed to do. I was driving home and it all just came to me in these visions. Like I saw the future.”
She didn’t ask questions. “Pam, you go straight home and write it all down.”
That’s exactly what I did.
A month later, we attended the LO Sister Conference - the same one Jenna had “tricked” me into. God met me there that weekend. I have never in my life felt the presence of God in me and around me like I did those two days. During every session, it was like I was floating. A total out-of-body experience.
Jesus saved me that weekend. I surrendered and gave my life to God.
You can’t make me believe that was coincidence. You can’t convince me it wasn’t God who sparked that conversation with Jenna. Who aligned it so the conference fell on a weekend I didn’t have my kids. Who made sure I had nothing else planned even though I found out just weeks before.
It was God working through other people to reach me when I wasn’t listening to His calling.
That vision at the stop sign? It drives me every single day now. Because I know this isn’t just my dream - it’s His promise. Every time I share my story, every time I step on a stage, every time I help another woman realize she wasn’t created to wear someone else’s expectations… I’m walking toward that vision He showed me.
There’s a woman out there right now sitting in her car, crying, asking God “What am I supposed to be doing?” And maybe - just maybe - my story is the answer she needs to hear.
You weren’t created to wear someone else’s expectations. You were created for His purpose, His calling, His vision for your life.
What vision is God trying to show you that you keep dismissing as impossible?