“The WARNING SIGNS are there. You just need to know how to read them.”
“I wish would could have had a longer time.”
— R. DUROCHER, EVENT HOST
“She POURS INTO PEOPLE from her own experiences, and it’s TRULY A BEAUTIFUL THING to be in the room for.”
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Wife, mother of six, and grandmother, Pam understands firsthand the pressure of juggling multiple demanding roles. Her personal journey through childhood trauma, perfectionism, anxiety, and addiction - culminating in sobriety and spiritual transformation - fuels her passion for helping people find freedom.
As a self-taught entrepreneur, she combined faith, fashion, and empowerment to build her speaking career and MBS | The Woman Beyond The Cape, proving that authentic leadership creates lasting impact.
Ready to help your audience reconnect with who they were created to be?
Let’s discuss bringing Pam’s Identity Pyramid Framework to your next event.
SIGNATURE KEYNOTE
Awakening Your Identity: The Blueprint to Living Without Rock Bottom
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In today’s achievement-obsessed culture, high performers are drowning under the weight of endless expectations. They’ve built their identities around being the person everyone can count on - the one who never says no, never drops the ball, never shows cracks. But here’s what they don’t realize: the warning signs of complete identity disconnection are flashing right in front of them.
As someone who ignored every single red flag on my way to rock bottom in 2022, I know exactly what those signs look like. The persistent nudge you keep silencing. The stranger staring back in the mirror. The growing disconnect between who you are and who you’re performing to be. I was the mom of six who looked like she had it all together while secretly battling anxiety, depression, and addiction.
My breakdown taught me something powerful: rock bottom was completely optional. All the signs were there - I just didn’t know how to read them. Through my journey to 19+ months of sobriety and complete identity reconstruction, I’ve developed the blueprint to help others recognize these warning signs before crisis forces the awakening they could choose voluntarily.
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AUDIENCE TAKEAWAYS:
Learn to recognize the warning signs of identity disconnection before they become crises
Discover how to distinguish between authentic calling and external expectations
Gain tools to prevent rock bottom by building awareness and authentic connection
Experience a transformational “mirror moment” that awakens their true worth
Leave knowing they are worthy of living authentically without anyone’s permission
HOW I CAN SERVE YOUR AUDIENCE
KEYNOTE SPEAKING
Transformational presentations that create immediate identity shifts
PANEL DISCUSSIONS
Expert insights on identity, leadership, and authentic performance
WORKSHOPS
Interactive sessions with hands-on tools for recognizing warning signs
PODCAST INTERVIEWS
Authentic conversations about prevention, identity, and transformation
MEDIA APPEARANCES
TV interviews sharing expertise on high-performer challenges
WRITTEN FEATURES
Magazine articles and thought leadership pieces
HOSTING A WOMEN’S OR FAITH- BASED EVENT?
Every keynote is tailored to your specific audience. Pam beautifully adapts her message for women’s events, church conferences, and faith-based gatherings - ensuring she will meet your audience exactly where they are.
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